Friday, February 3, 2012

Dear Justice

Dear Justice,
Can you give me an ETA,
Because we’re suffering at the hands of this Government every day. 
We elected a black president…. and let me just say,
This country has become more racist is so many ways. 
The police don’t care they’re the most dangerous gang,
And this justice system loves to create slaves and put us in chains,
Because they get a kick back this slavery is modern day.
 Willy Lynch wasn’t playing when he put his law to control us into play.
 We worry about war but could care less about who’s starving,
Especially if their skin is brown or even darkened.
If they live in the Middle East, it seems we have beef
Because we are a “Christian” country who hates other for their beliefs.
The corruption of the church nowadays runs so deep,
That these hustling preachers and priest feed on children like demons in heat.
I’m no longer religious because I’m divinely guided;
Extremely spiritual my eyes are no longer blinded… 
Justice I’ve never seen you but hope that you’re real,
For years they’ve told us you were coming
But never seem to arrive here. 
So please hit me back and tell me what’s the deal,
Because I’m fed up with this place like candy rain….I’m so for real….

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Fact vs. Emotions

“There’s not much difference between Pimp and a Preacher… it’s all about charisma.” This is a statement my Grandmother (RIP) used to tell me. She would always tell me to “listen to what people claim and judge their actions against their words.” That’s a very powerful statement and one that has given me clarity into the nature of people.
We live in a society where most people are extremely selfish and self-centered.  From government to churches, the most “intelligent” and “spiritually guided people” have failed the masses. The question is who is at fault for that? Are they at fault for lying or us for believing the lie?
Let’s be honest with ourselves, 9 times out of 10 when you realize a person “ain’t s**t” you’ve known it for sometime but didn’t want to accept it. Why? Because instead of making decisions based on facts, most let their emotions guide their decisions.
Emotions can be manipulated but facts cannot. Check out the following examples:
·         Fact: Eddie Long engaged in sexual misconduct with under aged men. Emotion: Even though what he did is wrong by criminal and biblical standards he is given a pass by his church because of the LOVE they have for him and BELIEVE he’s innocent.
·         Fact: For over 4 days people in New Orleans sat waiting for a government to save them. Emotion: They TIRED but couldn’t get there because of the destruction (funny we have technology to land on the moon and clone animals but couldn’t get there huh?)
Man is an imperfect creature and should be evaluated as such. How can you trust those that can’t trust themselves? My Grandmother (RIP) used to tell me, “never put your trust in man, because man will fail you every time.”
Stop trusting a man in a pulpit to show you who God is, find him for yourself. Stop waiting on this failed prejudice government to help the poor, we have to help ourselves. We are the answers to our problems, but like a pimp does a hoe we let others dictate what we find to be acceptable.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

We Are All Full of S**t

“You just need to take a BM”. From my earliest memories anytime I was sick, my breath stank, had a headache, or my body felt off in some way, my Grandmother (RIP) would make this statement. For the longest time I had no idea what a BM was. I knew it meant “you need to sit on the toilet”, as she would say, but had no idea it stood for the term bowel movement. Growing up I thought my Grandmother (RIP) was a licensed doctor the way she could evaluate a bowel movement.
Bowel Movements are not a topical topic of conversation at the dinner table or a cocktail party, but most people are in some way obsessed with it. The state of you gastro-intestinal tract is a great barometer to measure the overall health of your body. Dr. Amy Foxx-Orenstein, president of the American College of Gastroenterology stated, “The GI is a processing unit that metabolizes all the nutrients you take in and eliminates all of the body’s waste. What comes through it is a reflective of how well or how ill the body is.” The texture, buoyancy, color, length, and shape all are great ways to evaluate your overall fitness level.
Here are a couple of common characteristics of bowel movements and the meanings behind it (all of this information comes from Sally Wadyka for MSN Health & Fitness (Medically reviewed by: Pat F. Bass III, M.D., M.S., M.P.H. March 4, 2011)
·         Hard and Dry: The amount of time it takes for the food you eat to make its way through the gastro-intestinal system and exit into the toilet will have an impact on the consistency of your stool. “Intestinal transit averages 40 to 45 hours from when you eat to when it comes out,” says Foxx-Orenstein. If it stays in the GI tract for longer than that, fluid is re-absorbed into the body and the stool becomes harder and dryer. Certain medications—like blood pressure drugs, antidepressants and histamines—can slow down the GI tract. Constipation, which has a myriad of causes, will lead to harder, drier stools (since you’re going less often, your stool will stall in the system and the fluid re-absorbed).
·         Little Lumps: “An ideal stool looks like a torpedo—it should be large, soft, fluffy and easy to pass,” says Foxx-Orenstein. But when conditions are less than ideal, the stool may become more like little deer pellets. Again, transit time may be part of the issue because slow-moving stool will lose fluid, making them less fluffy and lumpier. A lack of fiber in the diet may also to be to blame. Beware if you’re following a weight-loss plan (such as Atkins) that focuses on increasing protein and decreasing carbohydrates, since that can leave you with a diet that’s low in fiber. And since fiber holds on to fluid, a lack of it will lead to harder, pellet-like poops that may be more difficult to pass.
·         Too Liquid: Your body secretes about eight liters of fluid during the course of a day—from the stomach, salivary glands and pancreas—to help your food get broken down and make its way through the digestive system. Under normal, healthy conditions, the majority of that fluid is absorbed along the way, resulting in those sought-after soft, fluffy stools. But if food passes through too quickly, there isn’t enough time for all of that liquid to absorb, and the stool emerges in a too-soft state. The reasons for such super-quick transit could include a sudden increase in fiber in the diet, or a bacterial or viral infection.
·         Pencil Thin: Thin may be the preferable state for many things—figures, cell phones, television screens—but when it comes to bowel movements, thin is definitely not a good thing. Specifically, thin stools could be an indicator of colon cancer, or its precursor, polyps in the colon.
·         Looking pale or gray: Normal stool can come in a range of colors (influenced by what you eat and what medications you take, among other factors). But if your stool has an unhealthy hue, particularly if it’s pale or grayish in tone, you could have problems somewhere along your digestive tract. The liver excretes bile to help break down fats in the food you eat, and that bile also adds color to the stool. But if there’s a blockage in the liver—or in the tubes through which the bile travels—the stool might take on a too-pale appearance. Also, if you are suffering from a pancreatic disorder, the stool might look gray because it will be lacking the color imbued by the digestive enzymes produced in that organ.
·         Bright red: Your first instinct upon seeing red-colored stool in the toilet would probably be to panic. But before you speed-dial your doctor, think about what you ate several hours ago—if it was beets or bright red popsicles, that might be the culprit for creating those colored stools. But if it’s obviously a streak of red blood in the stool, in the toilet, or on the toilet paper, then it’s a given that you’re bleeding somewhere inside. There’s still not necessarily any reason to panic—the cause could be something as benign as a hemorrhoid or just a small fissure caused by straining to go. That said, it’s a wise idea to discuss with your doctor if you are straining often since that can lead to painful hemorrhoids. Also, if you’ve never seen blood before it’s definitely worth having your doctor rule out more serious causes—like colon cancer.
·         Too Dark: If your stool is suddenly black and looks sort of tar-like, the culprit could be lurking in your daily vitamin pill. Iron supplementation (on its own or when it’s included in a multi-vitamin) can have that effect on the stool. But if you haven’t recently started taking extra iron and you see this sort of change, you should make an appointment to see your doctor.
·         Float and stinks: Those ideal torpedo-like poops should sink when they hit they hit the toilet. But when the body isn’t properly absorbing fat from the food you eat, it ends up being excreted in your stool. The result: stool that’s yellowish in color, greasy in consistency, foul smelling, and that floats in the toilet. Certain medical conditions, like celiac disease, can cause these malabsorption problems. And since essential nutrients could also be lost along with the un-absorbed fat, it’s important to see your doctor if you experience this problem. These fatty, smelly stools are also one of the more unpleasant side effects of eating foods that contain Olestra (the faux fat found in some chips and other fried snacks) or of taking the weight loss drug Xenical

Evaluating your daily BM’s is a way to as Nana (RIP) would put it “Doctor on yourself.” Be proactive when it comes to your health. Use all the clues your body gives you maintain a healthy body and lifestyle. So many people are full of s**t these days the least you can do is use the characteristics of it to evaluate how well you are treating body.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Women: Here’s some game for free (In my Bishop Don Magic Juan)

They say a man’s first love is his mother. She will ultimately define what attractive is in his mind. For instance, my mother is a beautiful, confident, professional, spiritually guided woman. The most attractive characteristic a woman can possess in my mind is confidence. After all of the other attributes fizzle out, confidence is the one thing that always keeps a man’s attention.
As a society we are extremely sexual. Sex sells everything from shoes to soda so I guess some women believe that it will also help sell themselves. The problem is shoes and sodas are impulse buys, and most of the time you only get them for a temporary sense of satisfaction. Once the lustful attraction wears off and the spark is gone, then some women wonder what went wrong. I always hear women say, “It’s cool because there are more fish in the sea”, but if you keep fishing with the same bait, you will naturally catch the same fish. One man’s trash will always be another man’s treasure, but why go through all of that heartache and pain? I think the Unknown Pimp Poet from the lower eastside said it best when he wrote: 
           “Playas want to get out of the game,
But renegades make it so easy to play,
Most say they delay,
Because it’s just too hard….. to walk away”
Personal confidence comes from the love and acceptance a person has for one’s self. You can’t count on anyone in this world but the Lord, and next in line should be you. You shouldn’t love anyone like you love the Lord, and next in line should be you. Confidence will empower you not to “stand for nothing and fall for everything”. Having these understandings and showing pride in the way you carry yourself creates a confidence that is seemingly irresistible to others.
Most importantly if you don’t do it for yourself do it for the children in your life that watch you. If you want a man to treat a woman correctly, make sure he’s raised by a strong confident woman. You want a man to know not to put his hands on a woman, make sure he sees what his mother would have done if a man put his hands on her. You want a man to communicate with a woman, sit him down as a child and communicate with him. Things that seem so simple we make so hard.

Monday, January 30, 2012

I am not a Stereotype

Recently I saw a college friend I hadn’t seen in over 10 years. It was great to see her however something she said to me stuck out. First thing she said when she saw me was “wow, look at you all thugged out”. I responded “Thugged out? How do you figure that?” She said because of my locks, tattoos, jeans, and shoes I would be labeled a thug.
I’m not sugars puff by any means, nor am I a gangster or thug… I am simply me. I grew my locks as a symbol of strength during hard time in my life. My tattoos tell my story of emotional struggles and pain. I wear Levis because I like the way they fit and refuse to buy a $300 pair of jeans. Everybody that knows me knows I am a fan of Chuck Taylors. I have been since the early 90’s.
So how could someone ever think I look like a thug? It all comes from the way black men between the ages of 20 and 40 are depicted on TV. TV is brainwashing our society and dictating the perceptions others create. To many, perception is reality.
Instead of creating a blueprint of whom or what a person is, expect nothing and accept everything. Let them show you who they are and accept them for it.
A book cannot be judged by its cover, nor a man by his outward appearance. I think Andre 3000 said it best in this exert from Aquemini
-          “Now question is every broths with dreads for the cause?
Is every brotha with golds for the fall? Naw
So don't get caught in appearance
it's Outkast Aquemini another Black experience”